Loneliness is having other people and society and community around you, and having a deep sense of being excluded from them.”
Ichiro Kishimi
The Courage to Be Disliked Summary
Welcome, dear audience! Here I am with another book review. Today we will talk about “The Courage to Be Disliked Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi.” The book is a philosophical approach towards the perception of a trauma.
The book will provide you with mindsets that get you back to living a life that is more true to yourself, far away from always seeking the approval of others and constant people-pleasing. We sometimes distract ourselves from the main goal, probably because we don’t have the courage to deal rejection. People-pleasing and the habit of seeking validation from people make us move toward the less passionate goal, which does not belong to us. This results in nonsatisfaction. Excuses can actually prevent you from getting what you want. We blame people, circumstances, childhood traumas, and other reasons for not being able to achieve what we ever wanted.
Eliminate the need for recognition; just keep going and start, and you’ll definitely achieve it. But if you don’t start, you may regret it afterwards.
Novel Details
| Title | The Courage to Be Disliked |
| Author | Fumitake Koga and Ichiro Kishimi |
| Publishing Date | December 12, 2013 |
| Genre | Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology, Philosophy, Personal Development, Audiobook, Mental Health |
| Rating | 4/5 |
FAQs
“A healthy feeling of inferiority is not something that comes from comparing oneself to others; it comes from one’s comparison with one’s ideal self.”
The book is a motivational help guide. I t can be a new way to look at the traumas and past experiences. In this case, this book can be a good start for those who are constantly loosing their energy just be explaining people why they are the way the are.
According to Ichiro Kishimi:
“Children who do not learn to confront challenges will try to avoid all challenges.”
The fact is, we avoid difficult situations and make excuses, we blame other people. One should develop courage that everyone doesn’t like you and you don’t need to get validation of everything by people.
good